I have DREAMS and they are BIG. They are deserving of capital letters. They involve changing the world, making an impact, being the best that I can. They are exciting. They keep me from sleeping at night and they eliminate the need for coffee in the morning.
Much like Lauren, I set New Year’s resolutions every year. But mine blur the lines between resolution and goal. Mine are small steps for the year that help me get closer to my DREAMS. I break those resolutions down into things that need to happen each month, each week, and each day. It’s doing the small things often that help me achieve my resolutions and ultimately my DREAMS.
The beginning of the year is always filled with excitement. I redraw my DREAMS. I can see them more clearly. Each year they seem closer, more achievable. The things that I need to do don’t sound so daunting. Anything can be accomplished.
Then today comes around…the middle of January. Momentum is waning. My DREAMS are still as exciting, but my resolutions are starting to stretch my comfort zone. My goals are hard. My DREAMS seem too big.
So how do I face today? Today I remind myself that I don’t have to complete the whole goal in one day. My DREAMS will be a compilation of my life. If I can move 1 foot forward, that is as much of a success as if I move 1 mile forward. If I move 1 inch forward, I have still moved. The world has felt my impact. I have stretched. My 1 inch today is 1 inch I don’t have to go tomorrow because I’ll already be there.
Today I take advice from this blog. I ask my friends for help. I work to refrain from putting my fears into words because I don’t want to give them power. Instead I redraw my DREAM for others. I let them share in the excitement. I ask them to journey with me during this part. My DREAM is not their dream but we can share this part of the walk together. We stand in the bathroom with our arms up in the air forming a power pose and laugh at ourselves but gain confidence. We pretend we are a great leader and only do what we think great leaders would do in this situation. We retrain our thinking by changing the words we are using. We compliment each other and boy do we give good compliments. We thank everyone, for everything.
But most of all, I allow myself to move just 1 inch then I celebrate that inch, because today, I have succeeded.